Many of us think of life as a journey. But what if you never reached home on that journey? What if you didn’t really have a home and the journey was taking you to a place you didn’t know if you would even be welcomed to?
That is the story of Michael Winterbottom’s In This World, a film about two Afghani refugees who undertake the daunting journey to what is supposed to be a better life in London. Jamal was born into a refugee camp on the Afghan border of the NWFP but when we are introduced to the adolescent he is orphaned and working as a brickmaker. His uncle agrees to send him along with his cousin Enayatullah to London since Jamal speaks English and can help his cousin face the challenges that lay ahead.

The journey that ensues is the dark world of human trafficking. It involves very little human kindness: a Kurdish family that welcomes them into their home before they travel over the snowy mountain peaks into Turkey; and a few moments of sharing hopes with a young Irani family that is escaping to a better life in Denmark. Rather, as so often is the case, it is a heart wrenching journey that involves financial exploitation, getting caught by the police, horrendous traveling and living conditions, forced labor, and even death for the most unfortunate human cargo.
Jamal’s journey takes him from a life with little hope in the NWFP to a lonely hard life in Europe, selling trinkets on the street, stealing a purse, and stowing away under a tractor trailer in France headed for the UK. Once he arrives in London, the film shifts back to where the journey began when Jamal calls his uncle to tell him he is in London but that Enayatullah is no longer in this world. Jamal is still in this world — but what kind of world is it for him and all the displaced persons like him? Isn’t there more we can do to help people to work legally (and safely) in other countries so they can support families back home and try to make a better life for themselves?
As some of you know I used to be married to an Afghani. We are still very close and I have the most respect for his own journey, which included walking out of Afghanistan from Gardez on foot as a young adolescent; over the mined mountains into a refuge camp in the NWFP of Pakistan; becoming a street vendor at the age of 12 tryng to help support a family of 3 boys left at home, his mother and 5 sisters; teaching himself the trade of jewelry making; paying off a corrupt Pakistani to get him a visa to come and work in Doha as a jeweler, only to discover he was put to work doing construction without any shelter, proper clothes, equipment or even food; meeting a corrupt Pakistani imam who agreed to get him new sponsorship that would allow him to open his own jewelry shop and then stole all his money and even the customers jewelry before locking him out of the shop.
That is when I came into the picture. I was one of those customers and I took the imam to the police on behalf of my friend (who later became my husband) and got his tools, gemstones, jewelry and customer’s property back; as well as went to his sponsor to make sure that he would be allowed to open a new shop and work on his own. God bless his sponsor, a very nice Qatari gentleman, who has never asked for anything from my ex-husband and helped him with visas, licensing and anything else he needs.
My Afghani ex-husband has made quite a journey, too. While married we traveled to Thailand where he made important business contacts and visited London where he met up with some Afghani friends who had made Jamal’s journey in real life. He has since made friends from all over the world as people make their way through Doha, and has accepted invitations to visit them in their homes — all on his Afghani passport that was among the first to be issued to someone here in Doha after the fall of the Taliban.
Yesterday I was in his shop, admiring photos of his travels when I came across a few that were from his time in Gardez and Peshawar. He was such a handsome young boy but had such a serious expression that revealed the weight of his burdens. I thought to myself as I looked from the sorrowful eyes of that little boy to the man with the dancing eyes standing before me: “How far he has come in this world, maash’Allah!”
